Ins & Outs: 2K24 Edition

 

As the year comes to a start, I have seen a lot of posts on what people think are going to be - In - and what people think are - Out -. I wanted to compile my own list of thoughts on what I think is In and what is Out. 

It is no longer a certain type of style or item that is In or Out. 2K23 took care of that with people coming out of their shell and being more confident in their individuality and personal style and tastes.

I have noticed an upward trend of inclusivity and people being aware and loving their flaws and accepting others. However, negativity and a downward trend in the other side of the spectrum, generally people being close-minded or quick to make judgments or assumptions or too much impact on exclusivity. 

With the economy being as it is, it is hard press to say anyone has it perfect. Social Media is a place where people glorify the goods while ignoring the bads. But how can we progress as a society without making changes within ourselves and helping others along the journey if we pretend the bad does not exist?

It is similar to the San Francisco homeless situation. The well-off will complain about it and do nothing while good souls will help with activism and volunteerism to join the fight for the cause of decreasing this issue. It speaks more about a person about what they do for those that cannot help them rather than for those who can. 

It is quick to point blame at someone and close your mind off to the idea that there might be a different perspective than yours but considering different perspectives and taking care of your mindset and being patient with others and yourself will only help you grow. Ask the right questions and have actual conversations with those around you. 

So I wrote this list to note some of the things I have seen and things I would like changed and I hope it helps you. I also hope you also curate your own list and start making some positive impact amongst those around you.

2K24 INS & OUTS:

INS: Being Generous, Being Kind. Maturity, Self-Awareness, Therapy, Retail Therapy, Big-Mindedness, Equality, Self-Identity, Open-Mindedness, Close-Toed Shoes, Gemstones and Crystals, Sharing, Community, Having Hobbies and Interests, Being Interesting, Confidence, Trying New Things, Having a Spiritual or Religious Practice, Having a Music Taste, Keeping Promises

ALWAYS IN: Candles, Self-Care, Friendship, Comfort Food, Dessert, Romance

OUTS: Tit for Tats, Being Cheap, Gossip, Slander, Drama, Overconsumption, Gloating, Bragging, Not Being Self Aware, Overspending, TV, Expensive Dinners, Over glorifying Certain Things, Too Much Screen Time, Not Having a Bedtime Routine, Alcohol, Drugs, Lack of Values, Flakiness, Houdini Acts/Disappearing, Animal Cruelty, Playing Victim, Making Assumptions, Complaining, Caring Too Much About What Other People Think

ALWAYS OUT: Bigotry, Racism, Sexism, Self-Doubt